In this important, rich, and needed book, Jaco Hamman, using the wisdom of psychology, philosophy, and theology, considers what it means to be human in a technologically dependent and driven world—an era when many people use and are used by technology. Hamman argues that these new technologies can impede our ability to grow down, to deepen and broaden our lives. The timely wisdom of this book will benefit readers regardless of whether they are religious or not.
~Ryan LaMothe, Professor of Pastoral Care and Counseling, St. Meinrad School of Theology
Growing Down answers the question we all face, whether we know it or not: how can one form and maintain a self in an age of ubiquitous communication technologies that are reframing the meaning of human relationships? Hamman answers with a masterful summation of D.W. Winnicott’s thinking on the importance of becoming a ‘grown-down.’ For those willing to think counterintuitively, here is a feast of insights in support of Hamman’s claim that ‘growing down anticipates moving toward one’s wounds and revisiting the truth of one’s childhood and life.’
~Brad A. Binau, Academic Dean, Trinity Lutheran Seminary
In this beautifully crafted book, Jaco Hamman guides readers on a journey to become more fully who we are in an age when technology offers the tantalizing allure of becoming someone else. Hamman helps us reach into ourselves and cultivate innate intelligences, even as we reach outward to connect with others in civic and social life. Hamman provides both the theoretical framework and practical suggestions to assist readers in mindful rather than mindless use of technology. As a skilled theologian and counselor, Hamman prompts readers to engage in reflective philosophical, psychological, and theological questions in order to navigate with courageous wisdom through the thicket of life-giving and deal-dealing choices available at the flip of every technological switch.
~Michael S. Koppel, Howard Chandler Robbins Professor of Pastoral Theology & Congregational Care and Associate Dean for Academic Affairs, Wesley Theological Seminary
This book, written from the heart of the pastoral psychotherapeutic tradition in a fresh, contemporary way, invites an embracing of the importanceof any and all healing work that allows human beings to thrive and to be fully alive. Hamman’s book pushes us to accept that this work is probably harder than it has ever been, but also to believe that it is still possible, and may just yet save us.
~C. D. Mayer, Journal of Religion and Health
Growing Down is an enriching read, inviting reflection about human nature, growth, interpersonal relating, and Christian spirituality. It avoids superficial judgments and polarities; rather, it invites readers to ponder and grapple with the nature of humanness awash in technology, particularly from a Christian perspective.
~Dan Sartor, Christian Scholar's Review
This volume is a rich meditation on formation, technology, and the embodied connections that human beings need in order to flourish.
~Aaron Klink, Religious Studies Review
In this highly technological world, I highly recommend taking the time to read this book. It will leave you wanting to grow up to be a grown-down.
~Travis Jamieson, Calvin Theological Journal
